Class Action Lawsuit

I am a psychologist, not an attorney.  My opinions represent those of an old-school clinical psychologist, not an attorney.  But given the profoundly incompetent and professionally negligent practices surrounding mental health’s involvement with the family law system (sometimes called “court-involved therapy” or “court-involved mental health” services), I’d be open to collaborating with a legal team of substance in exploring the possibility of a class action lawsuit.


Negligent Professional Practice

In my non-legal view… the professional negligence involves the consistent and system-wide failure to apply standard and established constructs and principles of professional psychology to the professional work of court-involved mental health professionals working in the family law system, resulting in the system-wide failure by mental health professionals to appropriately and accurately diagnose child psychological abuse and respond with an appropriate child protection response consistent with their “duty to protect.”

As a result of a consistent and negligent disregard for the application of standard and established psychological constructs and principles to their work surrounding the family law system, mental health professionals are failing in their professional “duty to protect” children from psychological child abuse, resulting in significant and potentially irrevocable developmental harm to children, and in significant emotional and psychological trauma to parents.

Is a Test Case Needed?

The Tarasoff case in professional psychology explicated a mental health professional’s “duty to warn” the potential intended victims of violence.  A similar legal landmark case may be needed regarding the mental health professional’s “duty to protect” obligations surrounding the role of professional psychology in family law and child custody decisions made by the court which have profound and lasting impact on the family, centering on the application of standard and established constructs and principles in the diagnosis of child psychological abuse.

The pathology we are discussing (traditionally called “parental alienation” in the common culture but more accurately conceptualized as the trans-generational transmission of attachment trauma, mediated by the personalty disorder pathology of the allied parent), conceptually represents psychologically “killing” the targeted parent’s child.  Prior to the enactment of this severe form of delusional-psychiatric pathology by the allied parent, the other parent, the targeted parent, has a child.  After the enactment of this emotionally and psychologically brutal pathology, the targeted parent no longer has a child. This parent’s relationship with the child has been killed.  For all intents and purposes, this parent’s child has been psychologically murdered.

The consistent and negligent disregard by court-involved mental health professionals for the application of standard and established psychological constructs and principles to their work within the family law system is directly responsible for their failure to protect the child and targeted parent victims of this brutal emotional and psychological pathology. 

The psychological murder of one’s child – to lose completely one’s relationship with a beloved child – is a severe emotional and psychological trauma of profound proportions for the targeted parent; and for the child, the loss of a parent (the “psychological death” of this child’s parent for the child) can have profoundly negative developmental repercussions throughout the child’s life, including carrying this emotional and psychological trauma into the child’s own marriage and family. 

Standard and Established Constructs

The rejection of a parent is an attachment-related pathology

This form of brutal family pathology is driven by the narcissistic/borderline personalty disorder pathology of the allied parent, triggered by their perceived rejection and abandonment surrounding the divorce.

This form of brutal family pathology represents the child’s triangulation into the family conflict through the formation of a cross-generational coalition with one parent against the other parent.

These are standard and established forms of mental health pathology.

Because court-involved mental health professionals are involved in family matters of such profound consequence to the child and targeted parent, a high degree of professional expertise is expected in the relevant domains of pathology which they are tasked with assessing, diagnosing, and treating; i.e., attachment trauma and the trans-generational transmission of attachment trauma; the assessment and diagnosis of personality disorder pathology and its impact on family relationships, including the assessment and diagnosis of encapsulated delusional pathology emerging from the personality disorder pathology of the parent; and family systems constructs regarding the causal interrelationships of family behavior.

Child Psychological Abuse

The clinical psychology term for this form of family attachment-related pathology is pathogenic parenting by the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent (patho=pathology; genic=genesis, creation).  Pathogenic parenting is the creation of significant psychopathology in the child through aberrant and distorted parenting practices.

Pathogenic parenting that is creating significant developmental pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 1), personality disorder pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 2), and delusional-psychiatric pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 3) in order to meet the emotional and psychological needs of the parent, and that results in the loss for the child of a healthy attachment bond to a normal-range and affectionally available parent, represents a DSM-5 diagnosis of Child Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.

A mental health professional’s “duty to protect,” especially under circumstances of such profound developmental consequence to the child and emotional trauma for the parent who is targeted by this brutal family pathology, would seemingly engage the professional’s obligation to apply standard and established psychological principles and constructs in the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of this pathology in order to fulfill the professional’s “duty to protect” relative to the psychological abuse of the child and the infliction of potentially lifelong emotional trauma on the targeted parent.

The failure to reasonably employ standard and established psychological principles and constructs (from attachment theory relative to an attachment-related pathology, from the field of personality disorder pathology relative to the impact of parental personality disorder pathology on the family, and from family systems theory relative to the interrelationship of causality for family behavior) would seemingly represent negligent professional practice. 

But that’s just my non-legal, psychologist opinion.  Maybe I’m wrong.  Maybe court-involved mental health professionals don’t need to know about the functioning and dysfunctioning of the attachment system when they treat attachment-related disorders.  Maybe court-involved mental health professionals don’t need to know about personality disorder pathology when they treat families whose relationships are being heavily influenced by parental personality disorder pathology.  Maybe court-involved mental health professionals don’t need to know about standard constructs from family systems theory when they are assessing, diagnosing, and treating families.

Maybe I’m wrong.  Maybe court-involved mental health professionals don’t need to properly diagnose child psychological abuse, even through V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse is a DSM-5 diagnosis and all mental health professionals are responsible for knowing and properly diagnosing all disorders in the DSM diagnostic system as a standard of professional practice.

Maybe I”m wrong… but personally, I don’t think so.  Personally, I think it’s negligent professional practice to so cavalierly disregard standard and established psychological constructs and principles in the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of mental health pathology.  Personally, I think it’s negligent professional practice to not know what you’re doing.

Extended Responsiblity

Again, I’m not a legal professional.  But from where I sit as a simple clinical psychologist, it would seem that by providing professional “guidelines” for the practice of court-involved mental health, both the American Psychological Association (APA) and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) have seemingly taken professional responsibility and provided their professional imprimature for the professional practices of court-involved mental health.  But, then again, maybe I’m wrong.

I can’t help but wonder though… in providing guidelines for the practice of court-involved mental health, would their imprimature for the practices surrounding court-involved mental health make the APA and AFCC legally liable for those practices?  I don’t know.  I’m just a psychologist.

However, if a legal team ever wanted to consider a class action lawsuit, I can certainly point out the relevant professional literature regarding attachment theory, personality disorder pathology, and family systems theory which, in my opinion, should reasonably be guiding professional practice in assessing, diagnosing, and treating an attachment-related pathology involving a potentially allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent in a cross-generational coalition with the child against the other parent following divorce.

(Attachment: Bowlby, Ainsworth, Mains, Sroufe, Fonagy, Ruth-Lyons; Bretherton; )

(Personality Disorder: Kernberg, Millon, Beck, Linehan; Dark Triad Personality)

(Family Systems: Bowen, Minuchin, Haley)

According to the ethical code of the American Psychological Association, mental health professionals are not allowed to be incompetent.  I would think this would extend to negligently incompetent.  Profoundly incompetent… resulting in the destruction of children’s lives and the destruction of parent-child relationships.  But what do I know.  Maybe I’m wrong.


Child Custody Evaluations

The professional practices surrounding court-involved mental health lack scientific and professional foundation in the established psychological principles and constructs of professional psychology.  For example, there is not a single research study establishing the validity of the conclusions and recommendations derived from child custody evaluations.  Not one.  Nothing.

No study demonstrating the face validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

No study demonstrating the content validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

No study demonstrating the construct validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

No study demonstrating the predictive validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

No study demonstrating the discriminant validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

Nothing.  Zero.  There is no scientifically established foundation for the validity of the conclusions and recomendations of child custody evaluations.

Nor is there any research study demonstrating the inter-rater reliability of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

If the results of an assessment are not reliable, they cannot, by definition, be valid.  So what is the data regarding the inter-rater reliability of the conclusions and recommendations from child custody evaluations?  There is none.  Nothing.  No data whatsoever.

There is no scientifically established foundation for the validity of the conclusions and recommendations of child custody evaluations.

But it’s even worse…

There are no operational definitions for the key constructs that are supposedly being assessed by child custody evaluations; the “best interests of the child” and “parental capacity.”  The absence of operational definitions for the key constructs of the assessment violates a basic tenet of professional assessment.

I want to be very clear on this, because I teach assessment, and I do assessment as a clinical psychologist.  I know assessment.  The absence of operational definitions for the key constructs of the assessment violates a basic tenet of professional assessment.

Prior to assessing for “intelligence” we must first define what we mean by the construct of “intelligence.”

Prior to assessing for “self-esteem,” we must first define what we mean by the construct of “self-esteem.”  This is a foundational tenet of professional assessment.

We are not allowed to assess first and then define the construct afterwards based on the results of our assessment because then the assessment would be subject to… wait for it… inherent bias.  If I define the construct after the assessment, then I can make the construct be whatever I want the results to be.  That’s not allowed.  We define the construct first, and then we assess.

Child custody evaluations violate this basic tenet of professional assessment practice by not first defining the meaning of the key constructs of the assessment; what represents the “best interests of the child” and what represents “parental capacity.”

Instead, these key constructs are defined idiosyncratically after-the-fact by the child custody evaluator.

In their analysis of child custody evaluations, Stahl and Simon (2013) describe the absence of any coherent operational definition for the key construct of the best interest of the child:

“A critical subject facing those working in the field of family law, whether they are legal professionals or psychological professionals, is the concept of the best interests of the children.  Even recognized experts in this concept differ with regard to what it means, how it should be determined, and what factors should be considered in determining what is in the best interest of a child.  Thus, this ubiquitous term escapes consensus and remains fundamentally vague.” (Stahl & Simon, 2013, p. 10-11)

If you have not defined the central construct of the assessment PRIOR to the assessment, then the assessment lacks scientific credibility.  You can’t just do an “assessment” and then make up what it means after-the-fact based on personal whims and biases (this form of bias is called “counter-transference” in the clinical psychology literature).

Bias:  Counter-Transference

Q:  If a child custody evaluator has “mother-issues” or “father-issues” from his or her own childhood and family of origin, what protection is there that these buried psychological issues from the evaluator’s own childhood won’t influence his or her interpretation of the data? 

A:  None.  There are no protections whatsoever against this subtle but pervasive – and indeed expectable – form of bias from entering into the current practice of child custody evaluations.

Q:  Is it possible that these “mother-issues” or “father-issues” from the evaluator’s own childhood might color the evaluator’s interpretations of the data from the child custody evaluation? 

A:  Yes.  Absolutely. In fact, from all the scientific research on schemas and internal working models within the attachment system, it is extremely likely that these subtle forms of personal bias will influence the evaluator’s interpretation of the data.  This form of inherent bias should be expected.

Q:  Child custody evaluators are typically confronted with differing and conflicting narratives about what is occurring within the family.  What protections are there that the potential “mother-issues” or “father-issues” of the evaluator won’t influence the evaluator toward accepting and co-constructing a narrative of the family conflict influenced by the evaluator’s own family-of-origin issues? 

A:  There are no protections against this form of bias whatsoever.  And this bias can be 100% unconscious for the evaluator.  The evaluator may 100% believe that he or she is being “objective” because the source of the bias in the family-of-origin issues of the child custody evaluator can be unconscious.   This is called “counter-transference” in the psychological literature.

The protection against this form of inherent, 100% expectable, and likely pervasive “counter-transference” bias in ALL child custody evaluations is to follow the standard and established professional practices for creating assessment protocols:

1.)  Operational Definition:  Operationally DEFINE the construct being assessed in terms of how the construct is to be measured – whether it’s “intelligence,” or “self-esteem,” or the “best interests of the child” in the case of child custody evaluations.

2.)  Construct the Protocol to the Operational Definition:  Construct the collection of data to address the operational definition of the construct by defining how the data leads to a conclusion about the construct (e.g., high scores compared to the general population on a visual puzzle task are evidence of the construct of “intelligence” – endorsing a pre-specified level of positive or negative self-statements from a list of positive, negative, and neutral self-statements is evidence for the construct of positive or negative “self-esteem.”).

3.)  Establish the Reliability and Validity of the Protocol:  Collect reliability and validity data on the assessment protocol.  In the case of child custody evaluations, it would likely be inter-rater reliability data and at least face validity data (the assessment protocol superficially “looks like” it measures what it purports to measure). 

Construct and content validity data would be recommended.  This might involve subjecting the assessment protocol to a panel of experts to critique the operational definition of the construct (construct validity) and whether the assessment protocol actually measures the definition of the construct (content validity).

Given the importance of the decisions involved for the family, predictive validity data for the assessment would be recommended.  This might involve follow-up assessments of family functioning regarding whether the assessment was successful in predicting outcome based on some pre-defined outcome criteria.

That’s how professional assessment practices protect against the introduction of inherent bias into the assessment practice.  Professional psychology knows how to construct assessments.  Child custody evaluations have followed none of these procedures.


Reunification Therapy

From what I can see, many, most, nearly all, court-involved therapists are simply making things up without reliance on any standard or established constructs of child development and family pathology, and then they are using vague psychological words to cover their nearly complete absence of the application of standard and established psychological principles and constructs from unknowing legal professionals and the general public, who unfortunately simply trust that the mental health professional knows what he or she is doing.

From what I can see, this public trust is unwarranted.

Take, for just one example, the ubiquitous use of the term “reunification therapy.”  There is no such thing as “reunification therapy.”  No such thing exists.  There is no model anywhere that has ever been defined or described about what “reunification therapy” is, what it entails, or or how it accomplishes “reunification.”   Nothing.  Zero.

The term “reunification therapy” is snake oil, pure and simple.  It’s a term that sounds like it has meaning when used by a mental health professional to a parent or attorney, but which, in truth, is an unknown concoction of unknowable ingredients that’s guaranteed to “cure what ails ya” but which actually winds up killing the patient.  Snake oil pure and simple.  It allows mental health professionals to do whatever they want, without any reference to established psychological or psychotherapeutic models, under the guise of so-called “reunification therapy.”

“Reunification therapy” doesn’t exist.  There is not one professional description of what “reunification therapy” entails.  Zero.  Nothing.  If any mental health professional uses the term “reunification therapy,” ask for a citation reference to the theorist who describes what “reunification therapy” is.

Parent or Attorney:  I’d like to know more about reunification therapy.  Can you please direct me to a book or author who describes the process of reunification therapy.

MH Professional:  Well, that’s just a term we use to describe this, and there isn’t really one place that… obfuscate, double-talk.  Bottom-line… no reference.

The correct psychological term for the therapy is family systems therapy.  Family systems therapy is fully defined and described by such preeminent figures in professional psychology as Murray Bowen, Salvador Minuchin, Jay Haley, Chloe Madanes, Virginia Satir, and others.  Family systems therapy describes both the origin of the family relationship problem and its solution.

Family systems therapy is one of the four primary schools of psychotherapy (the others being psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and humanistic-existential), and family systems therapy is the only school of psychotherapy that deals with resolving current interpersonal relationships within the family – the others are all forms of individual therapy.  Family system therapy is the correct and applicable model to use in conceptualizing and resolving family-related problems.

I’m a clinical psychologist.  I teach models of psychotherapy.  I know what I’m talking about.

Central to family systems therapy is the construct of the triangle; the child is being triangulated into the spousal conflict.  This is the technical clinical psychology term for the child being “put in the middle.”

There are two forms of triangulation.  In one, the parents unite to form a coalition against the child.  This occurs when the level of inter-spousal conflict threatens to tear the marriage apart in divorce, so the child develops symptoms that divert and distract the parents’ attention away from the spousal conflict over onto the child’s behavior problems.  The child (who is called the “identified patient” in this form of triangulation) develops a symptom in order to bring the parents together in their shared concern over the child’s symptom, thereby saving the marriage by diverting the attention and conflict away from the marital conflict and onto the child.

The second type of triangulation is a cross-generational coalition in which one parent forms a coalition with the child against the other parent.  This is the type of triangulation involved in the pathology traditionally called “parental alienation” in the general-culture.  It is a cross-generational coalition of one parent (the allied and supposedly “favored” parent) against the other parent (the targeted and rejected parent).

From a professional diagnostic standpoint, this is no big deal.  This is all standard and fully established principles of family therapy that are amply described and explained in the family systems literature.

But from what I see, many, most, nearly all court-involved mental health professionals do not rely on family systems constructs in their case conceptualization, diagnosis, and treatment.  Instead, they just make stuff up based on their whims and fancies.  But then they use the term “reunification therapy” to hide from parents and legal professionals that they’re actually just making stuff up.  By using vaguely defined terms that sound as if they had meaning, these court-involved therapists can essentially make up whatever they want and do whatever they want, in complete ignorance and without any reference to any standard principles or constructs of professional psychology.

Oh, and by the way, did I mention that court-involved mental health professionals can make a lot of money off of this, because families are so desperate for solutions and the court often mandates the family’s participation in court-involved mental health services.  Hmmm, who reviews the practices of court-involved mental health professionals?  Oh, other court-involved mental health professionals.  Sweet deal.

But I have a question, by providing guidelines and, through these guidelines, their official imprimature for the practice of court-involved mental health services, do the APA and AFCC incur any liability for the system-wide negligent conduct of court-involved mental health services?  Maybe not.  What do I know.  I’m just a psychologist.


Standard and Established Constructs

A child’s rejection of a parent is an attachment-related pathology.  The attachment system is the brain system for managing all aspects of love and bonding throughout the lifespan, including grief and loss.

Court-involved mental health professionals should therefore be relying on constructs from attachment theory – a fully established and well-researched domain of professional psychology – for the application of standard and established psychological principles and constructs.

In the pathology traditionally called “parental alienation” in the common-culture, the child is being triangulated into the spousal conflict through the formation of a cross-generational coalition with one parent against the other parent.

Court-involved mental health professionals should therefore be relying on constructs from family systems therapy – a fully established and well-documented domain of professional psychology – for the application of standard and established psychological principles and constructs.

The pathology traditionally called “parental alienation” in the common-culture represents the trans-generational transmission of attachment trauma from the childhood of a narcissistic/(borderline) parent to the current family relationships, mediated by the personality disorder pathology of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent which is itself a product of the childhood attachment trauma of this parent.

Court-involved mental health professionals should therefore be relying on constructs from personalty disorder pathology – a fully established and well-documented domain of professional psychology – for the application of standard and established psychological principles and constructs.

Pathogenic parenting that is creating significant developmental pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 1), personality disorder pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 2), and delusional-psychiatric pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 3) in order to meet the emotional and psychological needs of the parent represents a DSM-5 diagnosis of V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.

Court-involved mental health professionals should therefore be relying on constructs from the DSM-5 diagnostic system – a fully established professional diagnostic system – for the application of standard and established psychological principles and constructs.

But that’s just the non-legal opinion of a clinical psychologist.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, PSY 18857

References

Stahl, P.M. and Simon, R.A. (2013). Forensic Psychology Consultation in Child Custody Litigation: A Handbook for Work Product Review,Case Preparation, and Expert Testimony, Chicago, IL: Section of Family Law of the American Bar Association.

 

Not a New Pathology

The pathology typically called “parental alienation” in the popular culture is NOT some “new form” of pathology.  It is all standard and established stuff.

Rejection of a parent is an attachment-related pathology.

The attachment system is the brain system that manages all aspects of love and bonding throughout the lifespan, including grief and loss.

Within attachment theory (Bowlby, 1969, 1973, 1980), this family attachment-related pathology would be considered a form of “pathological mourning” surrounding the divorce.

“The deactivation of attachment behavior is a key feature of certain common variants of pathological mourning.” (Bowlby, 1980, p. 70)

The pathology is fundamentally the inability of the family (of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent within the family) to process the grief and loss surrounding the divorce.  Instead, the narcissistic/(borderline) personality transforms the sadness and grief into anger and resentment, loaded with revengeful wishes:

“They [narcissists] are especially deficient in genuine feelings of sadness and mournful longing; their incapacity for experiencing depressive reactions is a basic feature of their personalities.  When abandoned or disappointed by other people they may show what on the surface looks like depression, but which on further examination emerges as anger and resentment, loaded with revengeful wishes, rather than real sadness for the loss of a person whom they appreciated.” (Kernberg, 1975, p. 229)

The characterological inability of the narcissistic/(borderline) personality to process sadness and grief creates the “pathological mourning” and “deactivation of attachment behavior” in the family – in the child – through the child’s cross-generational coalition with this parent.

Cross-Generational Coalition: “The people responding to each other in the triangle are not peers, but one of them is of a different generation from the other two… In the process of their interaction together, the person of one generation forms a coalition with the person of the other generation against his peer.  By ‘coalition’ is meant a process of joint action which is against the third person… The coalition between the two persons is denied.  That is, there is certain behavior which indicates a coalition which, when it is queried, will be denied as a coalition… In essence, the perverse triangle is one in which the separation of generations is breached in a covert way. When this occurs as a repetitive pattern, the system will be pathological.” (Haley, 1977, p. 37; emphasis added)

This is not some “new form” of pathology.  We already know exactly what it is.  It’s just that many, most, almost all, current mental health professionals are simply incompetent.  They are misdiagnosing the pathology.

(Gardnerian PAS experts… are you correctly diagnosing the pathology?)

The personality pathology of the allied parent is the product of childhood attachment trauma (a disorganized attachment) that coalesced in late adolescence and early adulthood into their narcissistic and borderline personality traits.

“Disturbances of personality, which include a bias to respond to loss with disordered mourning, are seen as the outcome of one or more deviations in development that can originate or grow worse during any of the years of infancy, childhood and adolescence.” (Bowlby, 1980, p. 217)

The rejection and abandonment by the attachment figure of the spouse surrounding the divorce reactivates the “internal working models” (the schemas) of the childhood attachment trauma for the narcissistic/(borderline) personality parent.

Internal Working Models

“No variables, it is held, have more far-reaching effects on personality development than have a child’s experiences within his family: for, starting during the first months of his relations with his mother figure, and extending through the years of childhood and adolescence in his relations with both parents, he builds up working models of how attachment figures are likely to behave towards him in any of a variety of situations; and on those models are based all his expectations, and therefore all his plans for the rest of his life.” (Bowlby, 1980, p. 369; emphasis added).

“Every situation we meet within life is construed in terms of the representational models we have of the world about us and of ourselves.  Information reaching our sense organs is selected and interpreted in terms of those models, its significance for us and for those we care for is evaluated in terms of them, and plans of action conceived and executed with those models in mind.” (Bowlby, 1980, p. 229; emphasis added)

Schemas

“How a situation is evaluated depends in part, at least, on the relevant underlying beliefs.  These beliefs are embedded in more or less stable structures, labeled “schemas,” that select and synthesize incoming data.” (Beck, et al., 2004, p. 17)

“The content of the schemas may deal with personal relationships, such as attitudes toward the self or others, or impersonal categories… When schemas are latent, they are not participating in information processing; when activated they channel cognitive processing from the earliest to the final stages… When hypervalent, these idiosyncratic schemas displace and probably inhibit other schemas that may be more adaptive or more appropriate for a given situation.  They consequently introduce a systematic bias into information processing.” (Beck, et al., 2004, p. 27)

“In personality disorders, the schemas are part of normal, everyday processing of information.” (Beck, et al., 2004, p. 27)

“Arntz (1994) hypothesized that childhood traumas underlie the formation of core schemas, which in their turn, lead to the development of BPD [borderline personality disorder].” (Beck, et al., 2004, p 192)

“BPD patients process information through a specific set of three core beliefs or schemas of themselves and others, i.e., ‘I am powerless and vulnerable’, ‘I am inherently unacceptable’, and ‘Others are dangerous and malevolent’.  Needing support in a dangerous world but not trusting others brings BPD patients into a state of hypervigilance.  Schema-specific information is highly prioritized or difficult to inhibit in this state, resulting in biases in early information processing phases.” (Sieswerda, Arntz, Mertens, & Vertommen, 2006, p. 1011)

“Patients with BPD were characterized by higher self-reports of beliefs, emotions, and behaviors related to the four pathogenic BPD modes (detached protector, abandoned/abused child, angry child, and punitive parent mode).” (Beck, et al., 2004, p 192)

The “internal working models” for the childhood attachment trauma of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent are in the pattern, “abusive parent“/”victimized child“/”protective parent

“Young elaborated on an idea, in the 1980s introduced by Aaron Beck in clinical workshops, that some pathological states of patients with BPD are a sort of regression into intense emotional states experienced as a child.  Young conceptualized such states as schema modes… Young hypothesized that four schema modes are central to BPD: the abandoned child mode (the present author suggests to label it the abused and abandoned child); the angry/impulsive child mode; the punitive parent mode, and the detached protector mode.” (Beck, et all, 2004, p. 199)

“One primary transference-countertransference dynamic involves reenactment of familiar roles of victimperpetratorrescuer-bystander in the therapy relationship.  Therapist and client play out these roles, often in complementary fashion with one another, as they relive various aspects of the client’s early attachment relationships.” (Pearlman & Courtois, 2005, p. 455)

These patterns of “internal working models” become overlaid onto the current family members.  The current child is assigned the role as the supposedly “victimized child,” the targeted parent is assigned the trauma reenactment role as the “abusive parent,” and the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent adopts and conspicuously displays to others the coveted role as the all-wonderful “protective parent.”

The “bystander role” is assigned to the various mental health professionals, attorneys, parenting coordinators, judges, and school personnel whose role becomes to validate and legitimize the false trauma reenactment narrative created by the narcissistic/(borderline) parent.

The trauma-roles (the “internal working models” of attachment trauma) are all in place to reenact the childhood trauma of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent into the current family relationships. All that’s required to initiate the trauma reenactment narrative is to convince the child through manipulative communication techniques to adopt the role of “victimized child” relative to the parenting practices of the targeted parent.

This is important to understand… the rejection of the targeted parent is not created by the allied parent “bad-mouthing” and saying negative things about the other parent.  The child’s rejection of the targeted parent is created by convincing the child through manipulative techniques of subtle psychological influence and control to accept the role as the “victimized child.”  The allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent gets the child to believe that the child is being victimized by the supposedly inadequate, insensitive, and “abusive” parenting practices of the other parent.

This is accomplished by first eliciting from the child a complaint about the other parent through motivated and subtly directive questioning by the narcissistic/(borderline) parent.  Once the child offers a criticism, no matter how small, the narcissistic/(borderline) parent then responds with distorted and exaggerated displays of concern regarding the supposedly inadequate and insensitive parenting practices of the other parent, thereby distorting the normal-range parenting practices of the targeted parent into supposed evidence of “abusive” parental inadequacy – “Oh you poor thing.  I can’t believe the other parent treats you so horribly.”  The key is to convince the child that the child is a “victim” of the other parent’s inadequate and insensitive parenting. 

To all external appearances, however, the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent is not “badmouthing” the other parent; it’s the child who is criticizing the other parent.  The allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent presents as simply being a nurturing and protective parent (or so it appears) – “I’m just listening to the child.”  Manipulative, manipulative, manipulative.  The narcissistic/(borderline) parent is first eliciting a criticism from the child thorough motivated and directive questioning, and then is hiding their manipulation behind this elicited criticism – “I’m just listening to the child.  It’s not me, it’s the child who is saying these bad things about the other parent. I’m just listening to the child.”

The moment the child surrenders to the manipulation of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent and adopts the (false) “victimized child” role relative to the other parent, this immediately imposes the “abusive parent” role in the trauma reenactment narrative onto the targeted parent, irrespective of the targeted parent’s actual parenting behavior, and the child’s presentation as the “victimized child” allows the narcissistic/(borderline) parent to adopt and conspicuously display to the “bystanders” the coveted role as the all-wonderful “protective parent.

But none of this created storyline is true. It is all a kabuki theater display of a false drama created in the childhood trauma of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent, embedded in the internal working models – the schemas – of this parent’s attachment networks.  It is a reenactment of childhood attachment trauma into the current family relationships.

Reenactments of the traumatic past are common in the treatment of this population and frequently represent either explicit or coded repetitions of the unprocessed trauma in an attempt at mastery.  Reenactments can be expressed psychologically, relationally, and somatically and may occur with conscious intent or with little awareness.” (Pearlman & Courtois, 2005, p. 455; emphasis added)

“Freud suggests that overwhelming experience is taken up into what passes as normal ego and as permanent trends within it’ and, in this manner, passes trauma from one generation to the next.  In this way, trauma expresses itself as time standing still…  Traumatic guilt — for a time buried except through the character formation of one generation after the next — finds expression in an unconscious reenactment of the past in the present.” (Prager, 2003, p. 176; emphasis added)

“Victims of past trauma may respond to contemporary events as though the trauma has returned and re-experience the hyperarousal that accompanied the initial trauma.” (Trippany, Helm, & Simpson, 2006, p. 100)

“When the trauma fails to be integrated into the totality of a person’s life experiences, the victim remains fixated on the trauma.  Despite avoidance of emotional involvement, traumatic memories cannot be avoided: even when pushed out of waking consciousness, they come back in the form of reenactments, nightmares, or feelings related to the trauma… Recurrences may continue throughout life during periods of stress.” (van der Kolk, 1987, p. 5; emphasis added)

None of this trauma reenactment narrative is true.  The child is not a victim.  The targeted parent is not abusive.  And the narcissistic/(borderline) parent is not a protective parent.  None of it is true.

It is a fixed and false belief that is maintained despite contrary evidence.  It is a delusion.  An encapsulated delusion.  An encapsulated persecutory delusion.

Encapsulated Delusion:  “A delusion that usually relates to one specific topic or belief but does not pervade a person’s life or level of functioning.” (www.medilexicon.com)

Persecutory Delusion: “Delusions that the person (or someone to whom the person is close) is being malevolently treated in some way” (American Psychiatric Association; DSM-IV TR)

It is an encapsulated persecutory delusion.  This is called diagnosis.  This is not a theory.  The application of standard and established psychological constructs and principles – and, by the way, these are all scientifically validated and fully peer reviewed psychological constructs and principles – to a set of symptoms is called diagnosis.  Diagnosis.

This is not Dr. Childress saying this stuff, it’s some of the most respected figures in the field of professional psychology: Aaron Beck, John Bowlby, Otto Kernberg, Bessel van der Kolk, the American Psychiatric Association, and in a moment one of the top experts in personality disorder pathology, Theodore Millon.  This is all standard and fully established stuff.

This pathology represents an encapsulated persecutory delusion of a narcissistic/(borderline) parent that is being transferred to the child through the distorted parenting practices of the narcissistic/(borderline parent):

ICD-10 Diagnostic System of the World Health Organization. Diagnostic Description of a Shared Psychotic Disorder Diagnosis (F24): “A condition in which closely related persons, usually in the same family, share the same delusions.  A disorder in which a delusion develops in an individual in the context of close relationship with another person who already has that established delusion.”

This pathology is a delusional disorder – a shared delusional disorder.  It is a psychotic disorder created by the psychological collapse of a narcissistic/(borderline) personality surrounding the divorce.

From Theodore Millon:

“Under conditions of unrelieved adversity and failure, narcissists may decompensate into paranoid disorders.  Owing to their excessive use of fantasy mechanisms, they are disposed to misinterpret events and to construct delusional beliefs.  Unwilling to accept constraints on their independence and unable to accept the viewpoints of others, narcissists may isolate themselves from the corrective effects of shared thinking.  Alone, they may ruminate and weave their beliefs into a network of fanciful and totally invalid suspicions.  Among narcissists, delusions often take form after a serious challenge or setback has upset their image of superiority and omnipotence.  They tend to exhibit compensatory grandiosity and jealousy delusions in which they reconstruct reality to match the image they are unable or unwilling to give up.  Delusional systems may also develop as a result of having felt betrayed and humiliated.  Here we may see the rapid unfolding of persecutory delusions and an arrogant grandiosity characterized by verbal attacks and bombast.” (Millon, 2011, pp. 407-408; emphasis added).

This is NOT some “new form” of pathology.  We absolutely understand exactly what it is.

From the American Psychiatric Association; DSM-IV TR Shared Delusional Disorder:

“The essential features of Shared Psychotic Disorder (Folie a Deux) is a delusion that develops in an individual who is involved in a close relationship with another person (sometimes termed the “inducer” or “the primary case”) who already has a Psychotic Disorder with prominent delusions (Criteria A).” (American Psychiatric Association, 2000, p. 332)

“Usually the primary case in Shared Psychotic Disorder is dominant in the relationship and gradually imposes the delusional system on the more passive and initially healthy second person.  Individuals who come to share delusional beliefs are often related by blood or marriage and have lived together for a long time, sometimes in relative isolation.  If the relationship with the primary case is interrupted, the delusional beliefs of the other individual usually diminish or disappear.  Although most commonly seen in relationships of only two people, Shared Psychotic Disorder can occur in larger number of individuals, especially in family situations in which the parent is the primary case and the children, sometimes to varying degrees, adopt the parent’s delusional beliefs.” (American Psychiatric Association, 2000,p. 333; emphasis added)

“especially in family situations in which the parent is the primary case and the children, sometimes to varying degrees, adopt the parent’s delusional beliefs.”

This is NOT some “new form” of pathology.  We absolutely 100% understand what this pathology is.  It’s simply that some – many – most – nearly all – mental health professionals are misdiagnosing the pathology because of their profound professional ignorance and incompetence.

A psychotic disorder is sitting right in front of them in their offices, right there, in the chair right across from them, and they are entirely missing the diagnosis of a psychotic disorder sitting right in front of them.  Incompetence, incompetence, incompetence.  Profound professional incompetence.  A psychotic disorder.  Inexcusable.

This is NOT some “new form of pathology.”  We absolutely know what it is.  It’s just that profound professional incompetence is entirely missing the diagnosis of a psychotic pathology that is sitting right in front of them.

The pathology commonly referred to as “parental alienation” in the common culture represents an encapsulated persecutory delusion of a narcissistic/(borderline) parent that is being transferred to the child by the manipulative psychological influence and distorted pathogenic parenting practices of the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent in a cross-generational coalition with the child.

The pathology commonly referred to as “parental alienation” in the common culture represents the trans-generational transmission of attachment trauma from the childhood of the allied narcissistic/(borderline) parent to the current family relationships (through the creation of a false trauma reenactment narrative), mediated by the personality disorder pathology of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent which is itself a product of this parent’s childhood attachment trauma.

It is an attachment-related pathology.  It is a trauma-related pathology.  It is a delusional-psychotic pathology.

The complexity of this attachment-related, trauma-related, and personality disorder pathology warrants the designation of children and families evidencing this form of pathology as a “special population” requiring specialized professional knowledge and expertise to competently assess, diagnose and treat.

Failure to possess the necessary professional competence in attachment-related pathology, trauma-related pathology, and personality disorder pathology required to properly assess, accurately diagnose, and effectively treat this form of attachment-related, trauma-related, and personality disorder pathology would very likely represent practice beyond the boundaries of professional competence in violation of Standard 2.01a of the APA ethics code.

Failure to properly assess for this form of attachment-related pathology, trauma-related pathology, and personality disorder pathology would likely represent a violation of Standard 9.01a of the APA ethics code which requires that “Psychologists base the opinions contained in their… diagnostic or evaluative statements, including forensic testimony, on information and techniques sufficient to substantiate their findings.”  If the psychologist has not even assessed for the attachment trauma pathology of a shared encapsulated delusion (the false trauma reenactment narrative), then the diagnostic statements (or forensic testimony) of the psychologist cannot possibly be based on “information and techniques sufficient to substantiate their findings.”

Diagnostic Checklist for Pathogenic Parenting

Pathogenic parenting that is creating significant developmental pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 1), personality disorder pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 2), and delusional-psychiatric pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 3) in order to meet the emotional and psychological needs of the parent represents a DSM-5 diagnosis of V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.

Pathogenic parenting is not a child custody issue; it is a child protection issue.

Because of their profound professional incompetence, many, far too many, mental health professionals are colluding with the psychological abuse of children.

Holding Mental Health Accountable

Targeted parents must begin holding ALL mental health professionals accountable to standards of professional competence (Standards 9.01a and 2.01a of the APA ethics code).  Mental health professionals are NOT ALLOWED to be incompetent.  It’s not me saying this, it’s the American Psychological Association saying it.  Mental health professionals are not allowed to be incompetent.

All actively incompetent mental health professionals must be made to understand that they will – with 100% certainty – face a licensing board complaint for their professional incompetence when they fail to properly assess and accurately diagnose this form of attachment-related, trauma-related, and personality disorder pathology.

I don’t care what the licensing board chooses to do.  If they choose to collude with the psychological abuse of children by allowing professional incompetence, there is nothing we can do about that.  But we need to make it clear to every single mental health professional that they are playing Russian roulette with their license. 

“Did the licensing board do anything this time?  No?  Lucky you.  How about this time, did the licensing board do anything this time?  No?  Lucky you.  How about this time, did the licensing board do anything this time?…”

We need to make all actively incompetent mental health professionals play Russian roulette with their professional career.  There may not be a bullet in the chamber this time, but what about the next board complaint, and the next one, and the next one…

We will not abandon the children to professional incompetence.  We will fight.  We will Standard 2.01 BannerStandard 9.01 Bannerfight with Standards 2.01a requiring professional competence, and we will fight with Standard 9.01a requiring appropriate assessment.  These are the professional practice Standards of the American Psychological Association.  These Standards belong to you.  They are to protect you.  Use them.

Eventually, the licensing boards will begin to grow weary of colluding with professional incompetence, eventually the licensing boards will grow uncomfortable allowing the psychological abuse of children. 

We will not abandon your children. 

We will not stop and we will not relent until we have achieved professional competence in the professional assessment and diagnosis of this attachment-related, trauma-related, and personality disorder pathology. 

This is not a “new form” of pathology.  We know exactly what it is.  We just need an accurate diagnosis.

Pathogenic parenting that is creating significant developmental pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 1), personality disorder pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 2), and delusional-psychiatric pathology in the child (diagnostic indicator 3) in order to meet the emotional and psychological needs of the parent represents a DSM-5 diagnosis of V995.51 Child Psychological Abuse, Confirmed.

This is not a child custody issue; it is a child protection issue.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Psychologist, PSY 18857

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